Bereavement

The mitzvah of "leviyat hamet", burying the dead, is considered one of the greatest in Judaism in that it is an act that cannot be repaid by the beneficiary. The traditions of honouring the dead and taking care of their needs are spelled out in great detail and demonstrate love and respect for the deceased. In Sydney, we are fortunate to have one Chevra Kadisha (Jewish burial society) that provides for any Jew to be buried in New South Wales. In Sydney, there are three Jewish cemeteries - Rookwood, Macquarie Park and Botany. In the event of death, one calls the Chevra (02-9363-2248) and they then contact the synagogue to determine funeral times (generally within 24 hours) and who is available to officiate at the funeral.

After the funeral, the mitzvah of "nichum avelim", comforting the mourners, arises among relatives and friends of those in mourning. Those who are mourners are the spouse, parents, siblings and children of the deceased. The rituals of mourning vary over the period of the week and month after the funeral (and year from the date of death for the children of the deceased). These are discussed by the rabbi or cantor with the mourners at a visit prior to the funeral.

An excellent source of informtion is Rabbi Maurice Lamm's "The Jewish Way in Death and Mourning".

Judaism believes that the deceased should be buried. However, currently, the Progressive movement will officiate at cremations through the Walter Carter funeral home (02 9389-3499).

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